<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post3563225302693242803..comments</id><updated>2009-08-18T11:27:11.510-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on CharsToday: Goodbyes Are Not Easy</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/feeds/3563225302693242803/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html'/><author><name>Char</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13721202924711744684</uri><email>charchan9@yahoo.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-7470430888244321386</id><published>2009-08-18T11:27:11.510-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-18T11:27:11.510-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Fantastic poem, Char. Fantastic!</title><content type='html'>Fantastic poem, Char. Fantastic!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/7470430888244321386'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/7470430888244321386'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html?showComment=1250620031510#c7470430888244321386' title=''/><author><name>*Akilah Sakai*</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04916459493624762479</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3563225302693242803' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/posts/default/3563225302693242803' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-8839886506302782728</id><published>2009-08-14T14:48:24.246-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-14T14:48:24.246-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Char- we are people. Flawed in emotion and drunk i...</title><content type='html'>Char- we are people. Flawed in emotion and drunk in stability. We pile mistakes and there is collateral damage. Life has joy and sadness. I&amp;#39;m sorry for the sadness I bring and ask forgiveness for my mistakes. It&amp;#39;s the best I can do. Yes, goodbye is hard. ~rick</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/8839886506302782728'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/8839886506302782728'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html?showComment=1250286504246#c8839886506302782728' title=''/><author><name>Rikkij</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10933627704520555139</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='00642407845502435266'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3563225302693242803' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/posts/default/3563225302693242803' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3001924899437856375</id><published>2009-08-13T18:25:47.078-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-13T18:25:47.078-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Erin - Just got my haircut in KY by my daughter.  ...</title><content type='html'>Erin - Just got my haircut in KY by my daughter.  Yeah!&lt;br /&gt;Sorry you are going through such difficult times.&lt;br /&gt;Actually, I was going through an old (paper) journal and ran across that poem....pitifully sophmoric.&lt;br /&gt;However, with the recent passing of my sister, I think I am reflecting too much.&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for stopping by, and good luck to you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/3001924899437856375'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/3001924899437856375'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html?showComment=1250213147078#c3001924899437856375' title=''/><author><name>Char</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13721202924711744684</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='04050444244969967450'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3563225302693242803' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/posts/default/3563225302693242803' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-8826569250039436523</id><published>2009-08-13T17:52:30.123-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-13T17:52:30.123-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Char, you said, goodbyes are not easy.  I'm going ...</title><content type='html'>Char, you said, goodbyes are not easy.  I&amp;#39;m going through a few goodbyes of my own.  I feel it deeply throughout my core, although I&amp;#39;m on the leaving end.  I was just agreeing with you.  And then I was wondering at you posting this poignant piece from 2004.  I wondered if something had happened to make those feelings resurface.  Um, ya, guess I didn&amp;#39;t say nearly that, did I?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, when are you scheduling that haircut?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/8826569250039436523'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/8826569250039436523'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html?showComment=1250211150123#c8826569250039436523' title=''/><author><name>Woman in a Window</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14747858840088922077</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09758980004297226995'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3563225302693242803' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/posts/default/3563225302693242803' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-8993090293101612569</id><published>2009-08-13T06:36:05.780-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-13T06:36:05.780-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Beth, Thanks. I am doing okay, am back home and sm...</title><content type='html'>Beth, Thanks. I am doing okay, am back home and smothering in this heat.&lt;br /&gt;Cora, Thanks. I bet your words would&amp;#39;ve mad an excellemt poem! My&lt;br /&gt;ex chose a 22 year old over a 59. And, you can bet, there was nothing I didn&amp;#39;t say.&lt;br /&gt;Nancy, Thanks a bunch!&lt;br /&gt;WiW, I must be missing something here???  2004 was when I wrote that.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/8993090293101612569'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/8993090293101612569'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html?showComment=1250170565780#c8993090293101612569' title=''/><author><name>Char</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13721202924711744684</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='04050444244969967450'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3563225302693242803' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/posts/default/3563225302693242803' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3259978281652738713</id><published>2009-08-13T04:06:03.949-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-13T04:06:03.949-07:00</updated><title type='text'>no Car, they are not. 2004...</title><content type='html'>no Car, they are not. 2004...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/3259978281652738713'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/3259978281652738713'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html?showComment=1250161563949#c3259978281652738713' title=''/><author><name>Woman in a Window</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14747858840088922077</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09758980004297226995'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3563225302693242803' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/posts/default/3563225302693242803' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-1781958794335650767</id><published>2009-08-13T00:35:38.245-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-13T00:35:38.245-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Thats an amazing poem, you are a great writer!</title><content type='html'>Thats an amazing poem, you are a great writer!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/1781958794335650767'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/1781958794335650767'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html?showComment=1250148938245#c1781958794335650767' title=''/><author><name>Nancy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01437100562313656424</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12318341880116103051'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3563225302693242803' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/posts/default/3563225302693242803' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-161555280689594335</id><published>2009-08-12T17:56:45.028-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-12T17:56:45.028-07:00</updated><title type='text'>WOW.

Powerful stuff, Char. Reminds me of the day ...</title><content type='html'>WOW.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Powerful stuff, Char. Reminds me of the day my husband wiped out the bank account and left me and our baby for another woman, telling me he wished the baby and I would &amp;quot;end up in the gutter&amp;quot; one day. The things I said to him were far less poetic (ahem), but the feelings were the same.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/161555280689594335'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/161555280689594335'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html?showComment=1250125005028#c161555280689594335' title=''/><author><name>Cora</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02640568359378959501</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='18126455201371929951'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3563225302693242803' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/posts/default/3563225302693242803' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-8234124972495272779</id><published>2009-08-12T15:47:26.808-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-12T15:47:26.808-07:00</updated><title type='text'>That is excellent, Char. I hope you're doing well....</title><content type='html'>That is excellent, Char. I hope you&amp;#39;re doing well. {{hugs}}</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/8234124972495272779'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/3563225302693242803/comments/default/8234124972495272779'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html?showComment=1250117246808#c8234124972495272779' title=''/><author><name>Beth</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05149068921334726430</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12837018948402984477'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://charstoday.blogspot.com/2009/08/goodbyes-are-not-easy.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5311122606628249224.post-3563225302693242803' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5311122606628249224/posts/default/3563225302693242803' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>